Tuesday, November 11, 2014

The 11th Hour of the 11th Day of the 11th Month


Today's somewhat brief post is a NaBloPoMo (National Blog Posting Month) prompt with the following questions, "If you could permanently get rid of one worry, what would it be?"

I have seen a similar question on Facebook and my answer is either "fear" or "hatred." However, I realize that they are one and the same for underneath hatred is fear.

There are a number of emotions that actually fall under fear including anger, anxiety, doubt, worry, and the like. Think of them all as a mountain or better yet an iceberg, with fear being the ice below the surface. It is like a big monster that destroys in its path.

Today in the western world is Remembrance Day, a day to honour by remembering those in the armed forces who died while serving their country, i.e., in the line of duty (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Remembrance_Day). We take a minute at 11 a.m. on the 11th day of the 11th month, being today as I write this.

Since Canada is peacekeeping country, we have sent members of the armed forces to serve in peacekeeping missions such as in Afghanistan; see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Canadian_peacekeeping_missions for details.

If there was no such thing as hatred or fear, would there be war? I think the answer is obvious.

Some quotes on love and fear I would like to share are as follows: Marianne Williamson, a noted spiritual author says, "Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here." Oprah Winfrey states, "I believe that every single event in life happens in an opportunity to choose love over fear." Or for those attuned to the Bible, "There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear..." similarly stated to the book, A Course in Miracles which declares, "Perfect love casts out fear. If fear exists, then there is not perfect love."

Interesting that most people think fear is the opposite of love. However, keep in mind that fear is underneath hatred.

Which do you usually choose? And now? (And no worries, I'm not perfect either! However, it's a daily and minute-by-minute decision.)

And by the way, for a change, I am not posting this on the 11th hour (near midnight) on this day! ;)

Linking this post to Write Tribe Bloggers.

P.S. The video on this particular post is very appropriate today if you wish a view: http://xpressyouressence.blogspot.ca/2014/08/middle-child-you-are-special-todays.html

Monday, November 10, 2014

Knowledge and Skills


I am tempted to avoid some of the prompts from NaBloPoMo (National Blog Posting Month) - google it if you want to find out more about it (as there are several websites). However, since I'm participating in this challenge, I thought I would, well, challenge myself! ;) Thus, I am writing about something I'm not even 100% sure about! ;)

The theme or rather question today is as follows: "What knowledge do you have that others don't? Write a "how to" post about anything you've got skills for, small or large."

Truly, I would rather write a post on Remembrance Day or on a tea festival that I attended last month or something else: I know I have a number of draft postings on a variety of subjects!

The questions I ask myself are, "Why am I resisting this (topic)? What is it about my knowledge and/or skills that make me resist answering this question? How am I feeling about this and why? What's the matter with me? Really?!"

This is going to sound really strange. Really weird. I'm not really sure what my knowledge base is! You see, I have dabbled in numerous subjects over the years, but I do not consider myself an expert in any of them.

Mor do I feel an expert at work – I’m still learning! – even though my supervisor and manager disagree. After all, I have been there for quite some time: 10 years in the department, Resources and Publications, working behind-the-scenes. And yes, of course I have knowledge and skills in my behind-the-scenes position! ;)

Generally speaking though, I consider myself more of a generalist rather than a specialist. I know a little bit about a wide variety of topics.

What is the question again? Am I purposely distracting myself? What am I avoiding? Hmmm... Do any of you feel this way? Is it because I desire a change and not quite sure where to go with the skills and knowledge I do have? Or what?

Yes, so many questions! Did you know I generally do ask a lot of questions? Perhaps not on my blog in general, except for this particular post! However, that is how my insatiable curiosity gets fulfilled!

Let me summarize briefly some of the areas I do have knowledge and experience in, in no particular order (as I’m not aware of one that I have that others don’t):

1. Medical Secretarial - I worked in two renowned organizations. And I’m an excellent speller: long words don’t scare me, I think! ;)
2. Office/Administrative - I worked in a variety of roles in public, private, and nonprofit organizations through different lines of work, plus a stint as a temp performing various on-call assignments
3. Children - I completed a year of study on children years ago and the course even included children's books/literature/poetry
4. Counselling - I studied a general counselling program with various related courses as I felt called to do. The course came in handy when volunteering for a local crisis centre and also on the phones working with the public as an Information and Referral Specialist.
5. Palliative Care - This was another program I was interested in and studied, though I didn’t work directly in the field. I did co/facilitate two bereavement groups.
6. Expressive Arts Therapy - Me landing in this program was very synchronistic. I enjoyed it immensely though did not feel the call to be a 'therapist' (perhaps as I much more prefer the term ‘facilitator’).
7. Mental Health – I know people with AD(H)D, bipolar, etc. and have befriended and/or studied/worked/volunteered with them. I also undertook an ADHD program.
8. Spirituality – I became aware of universal truths during my spiritual awakening; see Another (20th) Anniversary: My Spiritual Awakening (http://xpressyouressence.blogspot.ca/2012/12/well-i-did-it-again-i-cant-believe-it.html).

Skills/Qualities (in no particular order):

1. Typing – Though people would consider me an excellent typist and I know some short cuts, I do reverse two characters as in dyslexia at times. And I’m also an excellent speller.
2. Writing/Editing – I can write various documents from letters/emails/press releases to a blog and am ‘good’ at writing, especially creative writing, can you tell? – everything’s ‘relative’ though some people would say ‘great’ ;) I am also ‘good’ at editing, and I can even read upside down! ;)
3. Blogging – Though there was a huge learning curve when I started my blog, including how to post pictures/videos, I am still learning other functions related to it such as settings and other behind-the-scenes work.
4. Ideas – I have a lot of creative ideas though sometimes they are relegated to words (poems/songs etc.) and various inventions.
5. Organizing – Though I can have a messy desk at times, I have the ability to organize and do it well when I do! ;)
6. Facilitating groups - I created a program for a group of adults with a mental health disability and creative programs for children, and am able to facilitate having learned group dynamics and being in different groups over the years.
7. Memorizing of faces, voices, and numbers – These skills are ideal for a receptionist or front-office person. The latter may seem a strange skill unless you're an accountant (and that does not appeal to me at all); however, it comes in handy with phone numbers, files, cards, etc.
8. Healing energetically with my hands – My hands generally tingle and feel heat. I also get spontaneous thoughts/words/images at times during energy healings.
9. Intuition - Although I think this should be near the top or at the top of the list, it's not one that most people, especially employers recognize; however, intuition is an everyday occurrence in my life whether at my work, with my blog, or at home. It comes as claircognizance (also known as clear knowing, the highest form of intuition where you just know that you know) as well as clairsentience (clear feeling), and can occur in person and remotely (even online via email for example).
10. Understanding - I have the ability to see both sides of a coin being the middle child - see my blog post, Middle Child: You ARE Special! Today's Your Day! (http://www.xpressyouressence.blogspot.ca/2014/08/middle-child-you-are-special-todays.html)
11. Empathy – though at times I may appear to lack empathy, i.e., be neutral, I actually have a deep sense of feeling other peoples’ pain in particular (see #9).

Regarding posting on how I know these skills, I do not think I can tell you or teach you for that matter. How can I? Most of these are intangible anyway.

All in all I do know this: (1) I am to work in the service industry (2) working directly with people (3) requiring variety for stimulation and (4) learning for growth, otherwise I feel dead inside. But then I ask, doesn't this apply to most people? ;) What do YOU think?

Looking at my knowledge and skills, what would you say are some possible occupations/work options that I could consider? ;)

Sunday, November 9, 2014

Soulful Sunday: Favourite Weekly Posts - Mine and Yours


Photo of me by Roberto Kaplan


Hello Readers,

I am leaving off where I continued this weekend series at my last blog post challenge, i.e., Ultra Blog Challenge in September.

It seems that the two favoured of my blog posts I wrote this past week were the following: November is National Novel Writing Month (http://www.xpressyouressence.blogspot.ca/2014/11/november-is-national-novel-writing-month.html), followed by my Thursday' post, Me? Professional Blogger? And You? - not a surprise there (http://www.xpressyouressence.blogspot.ca/2014/11/todays-post-is-nablopomo-prompt-with.html) and My Blogging Voice (http://www.xpressyouressence.blogspot.ca/2014/11/my-blogging-voice.html).

Speaking of surprise, I was rather taken aback about the lack of enthusiasm for my Post-Halloween Photos... post (http://www.xpressyouressence.blogspot.ca/2014/11/post-halloween-photos.html). And I'm glad I was able to empower/inspire someone by this posting, Writing when Emotional? Not! - still wonder about the title! - http://www.xpressyouressence.blogspot.ca/2014/11/writing-when-emotional-not.html.

What post would you most favour of mine this past week, and why? The feedback is good for me to learn to improve my writing and/or blog!

And my favourite posts that I read this past week, in no particular order:

Carol Graham's post, My Dog Can Talk, http://batteredhope.blogspot.ca/2014/11/my-dog-can-talk.html though sad is one you dog lovers in particular will appreciate!

Rajlakshmi wrote an amusing post, The curious case of Terrifying Typos, http://destinychildosheen.blogspot.ca/. It is a must read in my opinion, especially if you want a good chuckle!

Another fun read and great perspective, one posted by Nabanita, Dear Central Incisors, http://nabanita-blacknwhite.blogspot.ca/2014/11/dear-central-incisors.html#.VF9HbmeVZac.

Meena Menon - you aren't related to Usha Menon are you? ;) - wrote a fun post at Bingo Reading Challenge - An Update!: Take a look as I think you blogger/readers will enjoy it! ;) (http://meenasspace.blogspot.ca/2014/11/bingo-reading-challenge-update.html)

I appreciated Usha Menon's blog about pens, Where is my pen! - http://eccentricgrandmum.blogspot.ca/2014/11/where-is-my-pen.html

Suzy Que's creative post, Playing with Six Words and a Pot of Pretty Flowers: http://suzyspics.blogspot.ca/2014/11/playing-with-six-words-and-pot-of.html.

Eli Z's post - not because of her name! ;) - The World through Expat Eyes has a very interesting take on travelling to another country with a number of really great questions: http://expatliv.blogspot.ca/2014/11/the-world-through-expat-eyes.html.

It seems that the two favoured of my blog posts I wrote this past week were the following: November is National Novel Writing Month with a hit of 11 comments, followed by my Thursday' post, Me? Professional Blogger? And You? - not a surprise there with 10 comments and My Blogging Voice followed as a close second. Speaking of surprise, I was about the lack of enthusiasm for my Post-Halloween Photos... post which garnered only nine responses.

What post would you most favour of mine this past week, and why? The feedback is good for me to learn to improve my writing and/or blog!

Thank you again to all of you who read my posts and especially those who commented on my posts this past week.

Saturday, November 8, 2014

Smorgasbord Saturday: 1st Week of NaBloPoMo

Photo: Roberto Kaplan

This past week I started NaBloPoMo (short for National Blog Posting Month) on the first day of this month which was a Saturday, with a post on my new 100% vegan runners. It was National Vegan Month after all! ;) Entitled My New Runners are 100% Vegan! (I Kid You Not!) it featured my bright fuschia running shoes: http://xpressyouressence.blogspot.ca/2014/11/my-new-runners-are-vegan-i-kid-you-not.html.

Sunday brought Post Halloween Photos... with the purposeful marching dots in the title in the hopes of enticing readers - hahahaha (witch's cackle) - to read the post of one of my favourite days, at least in terms of "dressing up!" (http://www.xpressyouressence.blogspot.ca/2014/11/post-halloween-photos.html)

Monday's post should technically have been or could have been Saturday's post, November is National Novel Writing Month which is challenge to write a first draft of a novel within 30 days: http://xpressyouressence.blogspot.ca/2014/11/november-is-national-novel-writing-month.html

Tuesday's post, Writing when Emotional? Not! spoke about a few matters relating to writing when emotional or not, and writer's block (http://www.xpressyouressence.blogspot.ca/2014/11/writing-when-emotional-not.html).

I actually didn't think I had a blogging voice per se on Wednesday's post, My Blogging Voice http://www.xpressyouressence.blogspot.ca/2014/11/my-blogging-voice.html with a 'cheeky' picture to boot! ;) You blessed readers assured that I indeed did have a voice and a unique one at that! Thanks for your feedback! :)

Thursday's post initially was untitled as I was struggling with it, http://www.xpressyouressence.blogspot.ca/2014/11/todays-post-is-nablopomo-prompt-with.html, contemplating what would be most appropriate; sometimes I get titles intuitively, but not that day! I ended up with Me? Professional Blogger? And You? - you can let me know of a better one along the same lines if you wish - which spoke about the difference between a professional blogger and a hobbyist one. Me: definitely the latter, though who knows, that could change one day...never say "never!" ;)

Friday brought forth Vacation Spot: Not with some countries I have no interest whatsoever to explore and others I do as I am curious about them for different reasons which I mention, http://www.xpressyouressence.blogspot.ca/2014/11/vacation-spot-not.html.

Thank you to all my wonderful robust readers, faithful followers, and courageous commenters! Love you all!

P.S. Blogging friends, you may be interested in my post tomorrow ...

I am linking this to NaBloPoMo and Write Tribe Bloggers.